I recently did a podcast for the Modern Samurai Project and the host, Scott Jedlinski, and I had a deep conversation about the path in jiujitsu for new practitioners and how to act with courtesy in training. I think we covered some good ground that rarely gets covered. Check it out, and check out the earlier shows because Scott gets on some good folks.
Monthly Archives: February 2020
Chaos and jiujitsu
Life is chaos.
All the organizational things we try, all the methods and tricks we do to attempt to manage that chaos is just a band aid. There is no solution, except learning to surf the big wave.
That is why Brazilian Jiu-jitsu is so useful, and tends to become so addicting to so many people. There is nothing more chaotic (except for life itself) than grappling. There is so much happening, and so fast, and tiny fractional changes completely alters what can occur, that learning to deal with it gives you some nice tools to dealing with the variables of everyday life.
Case in point: if you move your elbow in an entanglement by one inch; that spells the difference between success and failure (i.e. life or death). No other aspect of fighting will such a miniscule change matter so much. If we are in a ranged shooting encounter, and you move your elbow an inch, there is little that will change. Maybe I slightly expose a body part or remove a body part from targeting, or I slightly increase or decrease my recoil control, but that will most likely will not affect the fight, but an inch is all it takes for an opponent to get that better control over a limb, or to sink in that choke a bit tighter, or for him to get a better position.
This factor can lead to much early frustration in jiu-jitsu. We start to think we finally have that move ready to land on our training partner, and in the blink of an eye that opportunity is lost, and we may not even realize why, especially when we are early in our jiu-jitsu adventure.
And this is one of the reasons why people who are new to being on the mat need to be circumspect in any conclusions they think they arrive at. There is a very good chance they are not seeing the entire puzzle. I cannot begin to tell you how many times I have thought “I get it now” to then having to completely revamp that opinion. There is just too much going on and it always leads to information overload.
The good news is that if you continue to chug along and refuse to quit, you start to see some order to all that chaos. Well, if not order, at least you get a handle on how to handle the chaos. You start to see how to surf and stay a bit ahead, or you build the reactions to handle the non-stop changes and variables that get thrown your way. And that is where you start to have some tools to handle the chaos of life. After all, if you can handle that higher belt that outweighs you by 50 pounds and you adjust on the fly to keep him from passing your guard, then dealing with the sudden client crisis at the office seems a tiny bit more manageable.
It is not easy, and it does not necessarily come quick, but it does come. Just keep after it.
Vid Analysis – Bus Robbery
I, along with my peers like Craig Douglas, Paul Sharp, Chris Fry and a few others, have been talking about the need to be able to integrate empty hand fighting methods, especially grappling, alongside firearms use for self-defense for decades. Over that time, a number of people have tried to argue that the entangled weapons fight does not happen, especially for civilians. They will try to get the idea across that somehow criminals never touch or come close to their victims, and all criminal assaults happen at distance.
Fortunately, with the prevalence of the internet and the information age and the ubiquity of video, we know how wrong that argument is. I have literally hundreds of videos showing that the entangled weapons fight, even for private citizens, happens fairly frequently. Here is a recent example. I like this video for a couple of reason. Number one, it happened this month, and number two, it happened in my city. As a matter of fact, it happened about a block away from the former location of my jiu-jitsu instructor’s academy., where I spent a lot of time, right round the same time of day this assault occurred.
Take note of a few things.
- Everyone likes to pretend that they “never let someone get too close to them”. In today’s society, there is not a chance of that being true. How do you get off a public bus and not let someone get too close? Are you going to yell “BACK OFF!” to someone behind you? You know what happens after that? The police come by and interview you and possibly arrest you for either disturbing the peace, or some version of assault. You simply don’t have the right to personal space that trumps public interaction. You will be within double arm’s distance of other people – including strangers – more often than not. Pretending otherwise is delusional.
- Take a look at how many other people were around. There were two within touching distance when the attack started. You can even see they looked and saw what was going on and they kept walking. You cannot count on outside help, nor can you assume that the bad guys won’t attack just because there is a crowd.
- Note how the very first thing the initial attacker did was grab onto the victim. That is a classic clinch position, and in fact one in which jiujitsu players spend a lot of time dealing with. And if you think about it, starting that way makes perfect sense. He had a contact weapon – the knife – and so he had to be in contact for it to have the intimidation value. Even if he had a pistol, how effective is it to stand at 10 yards away to mug someone? “Hey you, put your wallet and phone down on the ground and move away” does not work particularly well, because if it did, bad guys would be doing that all the time. Instead they move in because that is the best way to succeed. They must exert enough control over the victim to get what they need, and physical control is easier and quicker. That attachment between attacker and victim happens time and again, more often than not.
- Note how easily and quickly the fight goes to the ground. Also note how obvious it was that NEITHER side tried to go to the ground. This was not a grappling trained attacker fighting a grappling trained defender, but the consequence of fighting for your life when you don’t know how to NOT go to the ground. The typical advice to “not go the ground” is useless and moronic when you don’t put the time into learning how to stay on your feet. We all trip and fall just walking around normally at some point. Why does no one just say “never trip and fall”? Because it is obviously a stupid thing to say. Well, “don’t go to the ground in the street” is just as idiotic.
- Observe how hard it was for the defender to get back to his feet. Again, the typical keyboard warrior advice to “just get up” is shown to be vapid. If you don’t know, it is only dumb luck that can help, or the incompetence of the attackers. They also had gotten what they wanted and were less interested in continuing, which was a blessing for the good guy. Otherwise, it may have been far worse. Also observe that as he runs away, if the attacker had a gun, there is a good chance the good guy would have been shot multiple times as he fled. Just running away may not be the best answer.
To sum up, the entangled fight in real life happens again and again, whether weapons are involved or not. You can try to ignore that at your peril.
New Ballistic Radio Interview
John Johnston – the host of Ballistic Radio – and I recently had a terrific conversation about some rarely talked about topics in the training community. We covered how to give critique when you are an instructor, how to not insult training partners and treat them with dignity, and how once you start to see success when you are working to make yourself safer and more capable, the journey itself becomes the path. I thought this was a good use of 45 minutes.
Video – Retention Shooting
It has become far more popular for a lot of instructors to teach shooting at contact or entangled distances. I am seeing it crop up again and again with new courses popping up all the time.
I am all for this, with the caveat that the instructor has actually put the work in. Rather than just show something that they have given little thought or effort to in order to appear that they are “cutting edge”, or that they have spent zero time exploring in force-on-force scenarios against role players that have the freedom to act as bad guys truly act, as long as the instructor has done the work, I will support them 100%.
Unfortunately, that effort into doing the work is generally overlooked, and replaced with the “well, I have been teaching shooting for 40 years” or “I have been LE for 40 years” or “I was a SOF face shooter in Dirkadirkastan” and they teach incredibly sub-optimal techniques. This area demands as much thought and effort and study as trying to get a sub second draw, or shooting B8s at 25 yards, and anything less is doing the students a complete disservice, and arguably is unethical.
And just having certain components at a high level – i.e. the instructor is an excellent shooter, or is a BJJ black belt – does not meant they will get it. Shooting in an entanglement is its own thing, and requires that the instructor has put time into it, nit just the individual pieces. A couple of years ago, there was a video from two top black belts, both with direct ties to the founders of the art, showing how to shoot at contact. It was atrocious, mostly because while they both are undoubtedly better at BJJ than I am, they have never been shooters. They live in an area where they cannot carry as a private citizen, and have never been in LE or the military, so they have no clue about shooting, which means they have no clue about shooing in an entanglement.
Here is a video showing some explanation of a couple of crucial things to deal with in retention shooting. If an instructor ignores these, than I submit he has not done the work.
Why I Am Not Using a Red Dot: A Meditation on Chasing the Margins
Recently, I made a Facebook post concerning a shooting session I had where I shot poorly. I was frustrated because I shot far below what I know to be my demonstrated performance minimums and I expressed that frustration by ranting about myself online. A large number of friends reached out to me, either through comments on that post, or even by private message in an attempt to help me solve the problem. I am deeply humbled that so many folks would take time to do so, and I appreciate everyone who did. Thank you.
What they all were suggesting was that I put a red dot optic on my carry pistol, and they all felt it would take care of any shooting problems. Not to sound ungrateful, but I am rejecting that advice (for now), not to flat out ignore it, but for a very specific and needed reason – the red dot, while it will allow me to shoot better, will not permanently solve the issues I have.
I have two very specific problems, and I think it is far better to deal with them through software (built up skill and effort) rather than hardware that solves the problem only as long as I have the hardware available, but will allow the problem to arise as soon as the hardware is not available.
My first problem is physical. Essentially, I have opposing astigmatisms in each eye. That are somewhat at war with each other, and any corrective lenses requires ad odd mix. In fact, when I wore contacts, there was literally only one single company in the world that made soft contacts to that prescription, and I had to take their prices because there was no competition. So while one eye has poor mid-range and not great close range, the other eye has less than stellar distance vision but perfectly fine view within arm’s reach. So using glasses works for everyday things (except for the fact that I have to take the glasses off to read or see the dashboard of a car) works fine, it does not give me good perspective to shoot a pistol. Wearing them, I have crystal clear view of the target, but the sights are so blurry that I am almost point shooting. Wearing progressive lenses means I have to constantly bob my head up and down to see close and far at the same time. Shooting without glasses means the front sight is sharp and distinct, and the target is blurry, but not so much that I cannot tell where the midpoint of a B8 at 25 yards is (it is tough to do that, but I can just barely do it).
One of the things that contributed to my poor recent shooting was that I knew all this, but was stupid enough to think I could somehow “fix it” this time and I wore my correctives for the first two hours of the session. Once I dumped them – as my shooting buddy and mentor Chris L. told me to do – my performance quickly moved back to where it should have been. And my FB rant was mostly yelling at myself for trying to ignore reality.
So why then don’t I take all the excellent advice from tons of friends who are suggesting that I go to a red dot knowing that? I know how to deal with the issue, and a red dot would be a good permanent fix, yes. But it is entirely down to the second issue.
This issue I have is one that is purely the result of poor mental discipline. I eye track. For those of who are better shooters than I am and don’t have that weakness, eye tracking is when your eyes bounce from the front sight to the target in order to make sure you are getting good hits. Unfortunately, that is a good way to not get good hits! Your eye jumps before the round has left the barrel and now instead of the gun being properly aligned it points elsewhere. Mine has a tendency to go low because I look over the sights.
So the hue and cry arises. “But Cecil! That will be fixed by a red dot! So stop being obstinate and jump on board the latest tacti-cool thing.” And I cannot disagree. If all I cared about was the basic accomplishment of a task, then going to a red dot would completely eliminate the eye tracking issue since I would be essentially looking at the target the entire time.
Here is the crux of my refusal. I am not focused on accomplishing that task. The simple fact is that I can shoot well enough right now that I have no doubt that I currently posses the shooting ability to take care of 98% of any plausible violent situation in which I will need to use a firearm to defend myself. In other words, any failure in such a situation will not be the fault of my shooting performance. So what I am spending all this time on is dealing with almost an abstract pursuit down the rabbit hole of tiny fractional improvements on the existing skill set.
Don’t get me wrong either. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this. My continued training in jiu-jitsu is a perfect example. Once you get to purple belt level, your grappling skills will easily handle 95+% of any H2H scenario, so putting so much time, money, blood, sweat, and tears into the levels past that is just either for a purely enjoyment outlook, or for competition, or, as I said, going down the rabbit hole of little things. There is nothing wrong with that because arguably that is a far more useful and productive way to spend time in our lives instead of mindlessly cruising the internet, or countless hours drinking at a sports bar watching sports ball.
However, this allows me to try to fix what I am able to with my shooting performance through software instead of hardware, without risking a failure to perform when I need to. Will I go to a red dot sooner than later? Almost certainly. But I don’t feel like I need to do it RIGHT NOW.
Again, thank you to all that reached out. I hope this explains why I am not taking all that good advice for the moment.
a narrow view
One of the insidious problems facing those of us in the self-defense community is that far too many people have an extremely narrow view of what we face when dealing with violent criminal assault. Too many people seem to think that said assault will look a certain predictable way, and base their training plans on that assumption.
If you think I am exaggerating, then let me repeat some clichés that get tossed around in the training community to prove it.
“The gunfight will be 3 rounds at 3 yards and last no longer than 3 seconds”. This is a popular one. People love to repeat this one, and use it to justify their own level of competence. The problem is that these numbers are an average at best, and what seems to be lost is that an average is just a line that is even between all the results (pedantically speaking, that is actually a median, but everyone tends to think of average this way regardless). Which means that there is an equal number of instances where the numbers are greater than 3 – longer distance, more rounds, and longer time, as well as an equal number of scenarios where they are less – i.e. closer than 3 yards, less than 3 rounds and shorter time than 3 seconds. And that there are very, very few instances that actually take place at that mid-line result, which means if you are training to that standard, it will almost never arise!
Another one in particular that annoys me badly is this: “All fights start on your feet”. This was created and has taken on a life because of the pushback to the demonstrated real world success of grappling. It serves to make those who cannot grapple and are not willing to put their ego aside to get some training in it feel better and smug about not grappling. It sounds reasonable at first. Except for the salient fact that no, in all actuality, not all fights start on your feet. Many, many of them begin elsewhere. We can easily search for documented incidents, including videos where violent situations begin in a car or a bus, or a restaurant booth, or a barstool, an airplane seat, or even when the victim is lying down. To make the huge assumption that all attacks will only begin when we are standing upright is to set us up for failure at the moment when we cannot afford to fail.
Take a look at this bus driver. Note where the fight started.
And not to let grapplers off the hook – they don’t get a free pass. They can be susceptible to this as well. The one that is particularly egregious is the “well, I know that move (something inverted or a guard pull or something along those lines) is fine for competition and training but it is not a street move”. Again, this is a false assumption that the attack will be starting on our feet in a wide open parking lot by someone who looks like a bad guy that we see coming from 50 yards away. There are those, sure, but far more are the ones that don’t fit there. Just as I talked about above where you are an Uber driver and your passenger decides to assault you for your Iphone that is prominently displayed on the dashboard, or the bus driver attacked while in the driver’s seat. Guess what? Inverted moves where you are in a 360 degree environment and can put your feet on seats and dashboards and car roofs make those moves incredibly effective and useful. Or the insipid advice to never pull guard. What if the attack happens on a icy or rain slicked surface? Ever tried to maintain footing there? You know where you will probably end up anyway? You guessed it. The ground. Where you would have been in a far stronger and more aggressive position if you and pulled guard (and no, this is not me telling everyone to pull guard in a streetfight every time. It is a contextual reason why it may very well be a really smart tactic, not a universal one).
To sum up, don’t assume how your fight is going to look. Take a realistic view of how fights may plausibly look, and prepare accordingly. Don’t settle for platitudes that accomplish nothing.
Just Start
For those of us who are all about being a multi-disciplinary thinking tactician and one who is truly prepared for whatever life throws at us, we need to deal with a great deal of information and material. One of the things I talk about a lot, both in writing, teaching, and being interviewed on podcasts is something that keeps coming up by people emailing or messaging me. It is one of the most important lessons I try to emphasize, but one that gets lost in the avalanche of things we concern ourselves with in this lifestyle. What I try to preach, again and again and again, is to JUST START.
Start what? Start training! Just start something. I don’t care what it is. I get a lot of questions about the best way to start, what area should be the focus, and how to find the right training. Here’s the thing. I T DOES NOT MATTER. What matters is that you are working on something.
Should you find a BJJ academy first? Should you take a defensive shooting class? What about medical? And then we worry about health and fitness. Wait, what about the pre-fight threat containment? And on and on ad infinitum. I have even contributed to it by writing different articles on my blog about specific pathways you can take when studying unarmed fighting methods.
It is easy to develop paralysis by analysis. We get so stressed about finding the perfect path. We hem and haw and waste time.
Stop the wasted time. Pick something you can do right now, and begin walking the path. It may be joining a jiu-jitsu school, or buying a kettlebell. It may be signing up for coursework with Craig Douglas or William April or an OC class with Chuck Haggard. Perhaps Tom Givens is doing one of his Intensive Pistol Skills courses (probably my single favorite class Tom teaches and the one I think is truly indispensible for the private citizen) within reasonable distance. Or you saw the Red Cross has their one day first aid/CPR/AED class coming up close to your house. I don’t care. And I don’t care which one you do first. Just do something.
The path only truly begins when you take the initial step. JUST START. NOW.